The Choice of No Choice



“Every choice that you make matters to your personal evolution, no matter how big or small. Whether it’s a subtle shift in your consciousness, space clearing your whole house, or making difficult yet necessary changes in a relationship dynamic; every single choice leads to an inner paradigm shift that’s important to

your Higher Self – regardless of how your awareness may minimize or value the importance of these daily choices.


Eventually, you will discover what I call ‘the choice of no choice’ within every choice that you make throughout the day. Learning how to recognize the ‘choice of no choice’ will become a touchstone for you to identify your Higher Self’s prayer for you within every present moment.


The first thing that you will recognize about ‘the choice of no choice’ is that it is always asking you: Are you ready to let the next thing go so that you can become more present to your relationship with life?


The ‘choice of no choice’ will always be the choice that you know is best for you to make, whether you choose it or not.

Within every daily decision, you have the opportunity to step into alignment with the divine will of your Higher Self. This divine will is always guiding you to make choices that lead to loving yourself more and embodying your greatest success.


Following your Higher Self’s divine will is the ‘choice of no choice’. Walking The Way is when you learn how to feel, to hear, to reach for, and to follow through on this divine will in every present moment.


The first invitation that arrives when you identify the ‘choice of no choice’ is that your Higher Self is asking you to choose one of the following:

  1. to lay down an outdated coping strategy,

  2. to let go of a seemingly useful yet harmful controlling behavior,

  3. or to clear a destructive pattern that would cause you to neglect yourself and sabotage your success.


When you can recognize the ‘choice of no choice’ in your daily life — and then choose to follow the divine will of your Higher Self guiding you to let go of what is harming you — well, that’s called spiritual maturity.


Through this lens of spiritual maturity it becomes possible to recognize that the ‘choice of no choice’ is actually an invitation to choose embodying more of You through self-love.


When you let go of what is no longer working, it creates space within you for more of your authentic self to become an embodied reality.

The more your authentic self takes up space within you, there is far less tolerance for betraying yourself by choosing the other thing. The second invitation of the ‘choice of no choice’ is always asking some version of the following.


Are you ready to welcome in:

  1. more self-love,

  2. more self-compassion,

  3. more willingness,

  4. and more divinely guided action that supports your well-being?


To authentically lead others you need to make peace with the reality that the ‘choice of no choice’ will always be there — staring you in the face.


Wrestle with it as long as you like, but at the very least, recognize that it all comes down to this one point. The ‘choice of no choice’, is an ever-present invitation from your Higher Self.


The most beneficial response for aligning with your greatest success will always be:


“I want to live the way that you want me to live, Higher Self. Show me. Guide me. I am willing.”

Eventually, saying Yes to the ‘choice of no choice’ becomes your personal practice for embodying your Higher Self. You discover that this one choice will decide all your other choices for you.


You realize that there’s nothing to figure out, it’s already sorted, the decision is made ahead of time. You’re always going to go higher when you say: “I want to live the way that my Higher Self/Sophia wants me to live — which is to prosper in all ways.”

—Kaia Ra, Stargate 1 of The Sophia Code Curriculum



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